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The emotional and physical care provided after a BDSM scene ends. This can include cuddling, talking, hydration, bandaging marks, or simply comforting each other. It ensures both partners come down safely from the intensity of the experience.

The person who takes control during a scene. A Dom (male-identifying) or Domme (female-identifying) may give orders, apply discipline, or guide the scene while ensuring the submissive’s safety and limits.

A pre-agreed word or signal that immediately stops all play. Commonly used safe words include the traffic light system: “Green” (continue), “Yellow” (slow down/check-in), “Red” (stop immediately). A safe word is vital for trust and control.

Someone who enjoys both Dominant and Submissive roles, depending on the context or partner. Switches are versatile and enjoy exploring both sides of the power dynamic.

The ongoing, informed, and enthusiastic agreement to participate in a scene or activity. Consent must be freely given and can be withdrawn at any time. It is the foundation of ethical BDSM.

The partner who chooses to give up control to a Dominant. A submissive may follow instructions, endure sensations, or perform acts as part of a negotiated power exchange. Submission is given willingly, never forced.  

Stands for “Risk Aware Consensual Kink.” It emphasizes that all BDSM activities carry risk, but participants should be fully informed and consenting. It’s an alternative to the “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” (SSC) model.

A type of temperature play that involves dripping warm candle wax onto a partner’s skin for erotic sensation. Only BDSM-safe candles with low melting points should be used to avoid burns. Always test and communicate during play.